FOOD ADDICTION SYMPTOMS...I OVER EAT...I'M COMPELLED TO OVER EAT...
FOCUSING ON SYMPTOMS IS NOT IMPORTANT... TO GO DEEPER YOU MUST ASK...WHERE DOES MY FOOD ADDICTION COME FROM?
Sometimes you have to crack a lot of eggs before you find something truly amazing.
OVERCOMING THE COMPULSIVE NATURE OF FOOD ADDICTION...
FOOD ADDICTION and Identity...Who are you?
OVERCOMING FOOD ADDICTION... Self Help Article #5 of 8
If you’re ADDICTED to FOOD you maybe struggling with feelings of confusion or frustration related to your identity.
For example, do you know who you REALLY are, independent of your family, your friends and your culture?
Would you be the same person you are today had you been raised in different circumstances?
Unresolved struggles in this area typically show up in two forms:
1-Displaced Identity—experiencing your sense of self overly dependent upon the circumstances you’ve constructed in your life. This problem can show up as:
*Defining your Self by your personal relationships (friends, kids, spouse, family)
*Defining your Self by the organizations you belong to (religion, work, social clubs)
If you have subconsciously identified your self with these ‘things,’ your notion of who you are will be dependent upon them. Having any one of them taken from you will feel like a personal threat to your being.
2-Identity confusion—discovering yourself unsatisfied with what you have, or experiencing the self you show to the outside world being challenged in some manner. This experience may show up as:
*Envy for others’ possessions (material belongings, degrees, titles, spouses)
*Acting out-of-alignment with your stated belief systems, your word, or your values
Unresolved, either experience of ‘Not Knowing Who You Are’ eventually results in turmoil and upheaval. A sure sign that you are subconsciously ‘Not Being True to your Self’ is the experience of being betrayed by others OR experiencing yourself betraying them (wife, husband, family, work associates, etc.)
I propose that these emotional ‘issues’ and outer experiences are not really your issue. They are experiences stemming from ERRONEOUS CONCLUSIONS YOU’VE MADE ABOUT YOUR SELF during the crucial stage of development that occurs between AGES 12 to 20 YEARS OLD. In a well-intended effort to control your future experience, you inadvertently further complicated your erroneous conclusion by PROGRAMMING CERTAIN DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR FUTURE BEHAVIOR.
Your STRUGGLES ARE THE PHYSICAL WORLD RESULTS OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS BEHAVIORAL PROGRAMS. These programs were ‘made-up’ by your inexperienced mind. The results, and inherent limitations, of your programs are now being reflected to you for reevaluation—this time from the perspective of your expanded experience.
Although your subconscious programs are perceived by your unaware mind as REALITY, your outer experience is simply a mirror—a LITERAL, ACCURATE REFLECTION OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIS-INTERPRETATION OF REALITY.
This may be difficult to believe. However, the evidence will become clear as you learn to see the reflection and decipher the symbols within the image. For example, an experience of ‘betrayal’ in your life is an experiential mirror reflecting the subconscious operation of a program of ‘Self-betrayal’ that has played itself out and produced results in a physical form. You are being given the opportunity to consciously see that this program is no longer working for you so that you may choose differently.
STAGE FIVE PROGRAMMING –12 to 20 YEARS OLD*:
I AM CONSCIOUSLY BECOMING AWARE OF ALL ASPECTS, ALL POSSIBILITIES, THAT EXIST WITHIN ME. I AM DISCOVERING THE TRUTH ABOUT MY SELF THROUGH MY EXPERIENCE.
AS I BECOME AWARE THAT I HAVE HONORED SOME ASPECTS OF MY POTENTIAL, AND CONDEMNED OTHERS, I COME TO UNDERSTAND THAT ALL POSSIBILITIES THAT EXIST WITHIN ME ARE VALUABLE PARTS OF THE WHOLE THAT I AM. THE POSSIBILITIES I HAVE CONDEMNED WILL EVENTUALLY DEMAND THAT I ACKNOWLEDGE THE INHERENT VALUE OF THEIR EXISTENCE. BY SO DOING I ACKNOWLEDGE THE INHERENT VALUE, AND FULL POTENTIAL, OF ALL THAT I AM.
A significant shift occurs during this FIFTH STAGE of development.
In your first four stages, your development was significantly influenced by conclusions YOU DECIDED to be true IN RESPONSE TO WHAT WAS SUGGESTED, AND/OR DONE, and TO YOU. From Stage Five on, your development depends primarily upon the conclusions you make ABOUT YOUR SELF IN RELATION TO YOUR OWN BEHAVIORS. Your task during Stage Five is to reveal and DEFINE WHO YOU ARE, separate from who you’ve been taught you ‘should be’ by your family, your friends and your culture.
Success in this process of individuation results in an enthusiastic, clearly defined sense of Self. Between the ages of 12 and 20, your environment expands and becomes more complex. You experience yourself in complicated social interactions and are faced with dynamic moral issues.
By EXPERIMENTING WITH DIFFERENT STRATEGIES in an effort to accomplish your DESIRES, you discover, and establish, your personal VALUES. Triumph in this stage is evidenced as you witness yourself BEING TRUE TO BOTH YOUR DESIRES AND YOUR VALUES, which translates to the physical experience of FIDELITY and DEVOTION within your relationships—especially your intimate relationships. Even small self-betrayals will produce some form of opposition in physical reality.
One immaturity inherent to this stage of development is to think unrealistically in terms of ‘all-or-none ideals’—standards of perfection imagined to be attained free of conflict. Relying on Ideals is a convenient and understandable substitution for the lack of experience that exists during this stage. However, as you gain experience you will learn that idealism without the realistic prospect of conflict is not a practical or accurate view of our present world reality. Once you realize and accept the possibility of conflict, you can prepare your Self to stand up for your Desires and your Values—even in the face of passionate opposition, if necessary.
During Stage Five you learn:
1. Which of your desires you feel free to identify with, safely express and act upon and
2. Which Character Traits and Principles you truly Value and are willing to own, endorse and personify.
If your desires and/or values differ from, or challenge those held by your friends, family or your culture you may be faced with conflict. When you are LOGICALLY AND RATIONALLY HONORED, SUPPORTED AND VALUED during this conflict, by the Wisdom of Experience, you learn:
3. How to ADVOCATE FOR YOUR SELF.
Success in this Fifth Stage results in ACCEPTING YOUR DESIRES AS A RELIABLE EXPRESSION OF THE POTENTIAL THAT EXISTS WITHIN YOU. This Self Trust results in a thriving and empowered sense of:
“I Am Being True to my Emerging Self as I Authentically Express and act on my Desires in alignment with my Values.”
Being HUMILIATED or SHAMED for your desires or your choices during this stage can be destructive to the natural process of individuation, especially when experienced in the presence of important peers. Lack of encouragement and support, indicated by intense pressure to conform to prescribed roles and expectations, may also result in eventual identity confusion, inner turbulence and upheaval—symptoms that an act of Self-Betrayal has occurred. These symptoms naturally evolve out of the misperception that:
“I cannot trust my desires. I cannot trust my Self.”
As a side note, the limits of this CORE PROGRAMMING ISSUE are often accompanied, and compounded, by a sustained period of suspended activity. This may show up in the form of job burn out, resistance to social activity, business loss, prison time, significant health issues, etc. This ‘suspension’ is a SUBCONSCIOUS CREATIVE ATTEMPT TO PROTECT YOUR VULNERABLE SELF BYAVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY until you solve the underlying subconscious question “Who Am I?” The question resolves itself as you accept, and honor, your subconscious desires and brings them into agreement with your conscious desires and values.
HERE IS ESSENTIAL TRUTH OF STAGE #5
OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS Programming
THE INTELLIGENCE OF YOUR UNCONSCIOUS MIND IS EVER-PRESENT. THIS INTELLIGENCE RELATES TO YOU WITH UNCONDITIONALLY BENEVOLENT, AFFECTIONATE REGARD and SUBLIMINALLY COMMUNICATES AND REFLECTS YOUR UNSEEN DESIRES to you through PRECISE LITERAL SYMBOLS—you’re WORDS and your PHYSICAL CONDITIONS. You can learn to DECIPHER these SYMBOLS.
Once you learn to recognize and translate the messages, you can EVALUATE YOUR FEEDBACK with your now-mature LOGICAL REASONING. By MAKING THE APPROPRIATE ADJUSTMENTS that make REASONABLE SENSE to you, in ALIGNMENT with your VALUES, you HONOR and LIBERATE the aspects of YOUR EMERGING SELF you had previously subconsciously condemned.
I read this description the other day of Plato’s “Allegory of the Cave”...“your minds — suffused and distracted with a non-stop stream of non-sensical repetitions of word symbols – imprison and isolate you in a world of swirling mental “bookmarks” of reality, tagged to, but only dimly reflective of What’s Real, and keeping you blind to the wondrous reality itself in which other beings live in clarity of purpose and life meaning...”
THE SOLUTION as stated in THE OTHER Stages is:
CONSCIOUSLY REPROGRAM A NEW, EXPANSIVE, LOGICAL CONCLUSION
Changing your flawed programming requires:
1. Opening your mind to the possibility that you’ve accepted limiting operations that are not necessarily true,
2. Locating the limiting program,
3. Challenging the truth of the program’s previously accepted limitations and
4. Consciously asserting and reinforcing your newly decided expansive conclusion.
If you are serious about changing, I encourage you to schedule
a FREE CONSULTATION with the treatment method I recommend:
Click Here: http://www.TheLiberatorMethod.com
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
NOTES:
FOCUSING ON SYMPTOMS IS NOT IMPORTANT... TO GO DEEPER YOU MUST ASK...WHERE DOES MY FOOD ADDICTION COME FROM?
Sometimes you have to crack a lot of eggs before you find something truly amazing.
OVERCOMING THE COMPULSIVE NATURE OF FOOD ADDICTION...
FOOD ADDICTION and Identity...Who are you?
OVERCOMING FOOD ADDICTION... Self Help Article #5 of 8
If you’re ADDICTED to FOOD you maybe struggling with feelings of confusion or frustration related to your identity.
For example, do you know who you REALLY are, independent of your family, your friends and your culture?
Would you be the same person you are today had you been raised in different circumstances?
Unresolved struggles in this area typically show up in two forms:
1-Displaced Identity—experiencing your sense of self overly dependent upon the circumstances you’ve constructed in your life. This problem can show up as:
*Defining your Self by your personal relationships (friends, kids, spouse, family)
*Defining your Self by the organizations you belong to (religion, work, social clubs)
If you have subconsciously identified your self with these ‘things,’ your notion of who you are will be dependent upon them. Having any one of them taken from you will feel like a personal threat to your being.
2-Identity confusion—discovering yourself unsatisfied with what you have, or experiencing the self you show to the outside world being challenged in some manner. This experience may show up as:
*Envy for others’ possessions (material belongings, degrees, titles, spouses)
*Acting out-of-alignment with your stated belief systems, your word, or your values
Unresolved, either experience of ‘Not Knowing Who You Are’ eventually results in turmoil and upheaval. A sure sign that you are subconsciously ‘Not Being True to your Self’ is the experience of being betrayed by others OR experiencing yourself betraying them (wife, husband, family, work associates, etc.)
I propose that these emotional ‘issues’ and outer experiences are not really your issue. They are experiences stemming from ERRONEOUS CONCLUSIONS YOU’VE MADE ABOUT YOUR SELF during the crucial stage of development that occurs between AGES 12 to 20 YEARS OLD. In a well-intended effort to control your future experience, you inadvertently further complicated your erroneous conclusion by PROGRAMMING CERTAIN DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR FUTURE BEHAVIOR.
Your STRUGGLES ARE THE PHYSICAL WORLD RESULTS OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS BEHAVIORAL PROGRAMS. These programs were ‘made-up’ by your inexperienced mind. The results, and inherent limitations, of your programs are now being reflected to you for reevaluation—this time from the perspective of your expanded experience.
Although your subconscious programs are perceived by your unaware mind as REALITY, your outer experience is simply a mirror—a LITERAL, ACCURATE REFLECTION OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIS-INTERPRETATION OF REALITY.
This may be difficult to believe. However, the evidence will become clear as you learn to see the reflection and decipher the symbols within the image. For example, an experience of ‘betrayal’ in your life is an experiential mirror reflecting the subconscious operation of a program of ‘Self-betrayal’ that has played itself out and produced results in a physical form. You are being given the opportunity to consciously see that this program is no longer working for you so that you may choose differently.
STAGE FIVE PROGRAMMING –12 to 20 YEARS OLD*:
I AM CONSCIOUSLY BECOMING AWARE OF ALL ASPECTS, ALL POSSIBILITIES, THAT EXIST WITHIN ME. I AM DISCOVERING THE TRUTH ABOUT MY SELF THROUGH MY EXPERIENCE.
AS I BECOME AWARE THAT I HAVE HONORED SOME ASPECTS OF MY POTENTIAL, AND CONDEMNED OTHERS, I COME TO UNDERSTAND THAT ALL POSSIBILITIES THAT EXIST WITHIN ME ARE VALUABLE PARTS OF THE WHOLE THAT I AM. THE POSSIBILITIES I HAVE CONDEMNED WILL EVENTUALLY DEMAND THAT I ACKNOWLEDGE THE INHERENT VALUE OF THEIR EXISTENCE. BY SO DOING I ACKNOWLEDGE THE INHERENT VALUE, AND FULL POTENTIAL, OF ALL THAT I AM.
A significant shift occurs during this FIFTH STAGE of development.
In your first four stages, your development was significantly influenced by conclusions YOU DECIDED to be true IN RESPONSE TO WHAT WAS SUGGESTED, AND/OR DONE, and TO YOU. From Stage Five on, your development depends primarily upon the conclusions you make ABOUT YOUR SELF IN RELATION TO YOUR OWN BEHAVIORS. Your task during Stage Five is to reveal and DEFINE WHO YOU ARE, separate from who you’ve been taught you ‘should be’ by your family, your friends and your culture.
Success in this process of individuation results in an enthusiastic, clearly defined sense of Self. Between the ages of 12 and 20, your environment expands and becomes more complex. You experience yourself in complicated social interactions and are faced with dynamic moral issues.
By EXPERIMENTING WITH DIFFERENT STRATEGIES in an effort to accomplish your DESIRES, you discover, and establish, your personal VALUES. Triumph in this stage is evidenced as you witness yourself BEING TRUE TO BOTH YOUR DESIRES AND YOUR VALUES, which translates to the physical experience of FIDELITY and DEVOTION within your relationships—especially your intimate relationships. Even small self-betrayals will produce some form of opposition in physical reality.
One immaturity inherent to this stage of development is to think unrealistically in terms of ‘all-or-none ideals’—standards of perfection imagined to be attained free of conflict. Relying on Ideals is a convenient and understandable substitution for the lack of experience that exists during this stage. However, as you gain experience you will learn that idealism without the realistic prospect of conflict is not a practical or accurate view of our present world reality. Once you realize and accept the possibility of conflict, you can prepare your Self to stand up for your Desires and your Values—even in the face of passionate opposition, if necessary.
During Stage Five you learn:
1. Which of your desires you feel free to identify with, safely express and act upon and
2. Which Character Traits and Principles you truly Value and are willing to own, endorse and personify.
If your desires and/or values differ from, or challenge those held by your friends, family or your culture you may be faced with conflict. When you are LOGICALLY AND RATIONALLY HONORED, SUPPORTED AND VALUED during this conflict, by the Wisdom of Experience, you learn:
3. How to ADVOCATE FOR YOUR SELF.
Success in this Fifth Stage results in ACCEPTING YOUR DESIRES AS A RELIABLE EXPRESSION OF THE POTENTIAL THAT EXISTS WITHIN YOU. This Self Trust results in a thriving and empowered sense of:
“I Am Being True to my Emerging Self as I Authentically Express and act on my Desires in alignment with my Values.”
Being HUMILIATED or SHAMED for your desires or your choices during this stage can be destructive to the natural process of individuation, especially when experienced in the presence of important peers. Lack of encouragement and support, indicated by intense pressure to conform to prescribed roles and expectations, may also result in eventual identity confusion, inner turbulence and upheaval—symptoms that an act of Self-Betrayal has occurred. These symptoms naturally evolve out of the misperception that:
“I cannot trust my desires. I cannot trust my Self.”
As a side note, the limits of this CORE PROGRAMMING ISSUE are often accompanied, and compounded, by a sustained period of suspended activity. This may show up in the form of job burn out, resistance to social activity, business loss, prison time, significant health issues, etc. This ‘suspension’ is a SUBCONSCIOUS CREATIVE ATTEMPT TO PROTECT YOUR VULNERABLE SELF BYAVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY until you solve the underlying subconscious question “Who Am I?” The question resolves itself as you accept, and honor, your subconscious desires and brings them into agreement with your conscious desires and values.
HERE IS ESSENTIAL TRUTH OF STAGE #5
OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS Programming
THE INTELLIGENCE OF YOUR UNCONSCIOUS MIND IS EVER-PRESENT. THIS INTELLIGENCE RELATES TO YOU WITH UNCONDITIONALLY BENEVOLENT, AFFECTIONATE REGARD and SUBLIMINALLY COMMUNICATES AND REFLECTS YOUR UNSEEN DESIRES to you through PRECISE LITERAL SYMBOLS—you’re WORDS and your PHYSICAL CONDITIONS. You can learn to DECIPHER these SYMBOLS.
Once you learn to recognize and translate the messages, you can EVALUATE YOUR FEEDBACK with your now-mature LOGICAL REASONING. By MAKING THE APPROPRIATE ADJUSTMENTS that make REASONABLE SENSE to you, in ALIGNMENT with your VALUES, you HONOR and LIBERATE the aspects of YOUR EMERGING SELF you had previously subconsciously condemned.
I read this description the other day of Plato’s “Allegory of the Cave”...“your minds — suffused and distracted with a non-stop stream of non-sensical repetitions of word symbols – imprison and isolate you in a world of swirling mental “bookmarks” of reality, tagged to, but only dimly reflective of What’s Real, and keeping you blind to the wondrous reality itself in which other beings live in clarity of purpose and life meaning...”
THE SOLUTION as stated in THE OTHER Stages is:
CONSCIOUSLY REPROGRAM A NEW, EXPANSIVE, LOGICAL CONCLUSION
Changing your flawed programming requires:
1. Opening your mind to the possibility that you’ve accepted limiting operations that are not necessarily true,
2. Locating the limiting program,
3. Challenging the truth of the program’s previously accepted limitations and
4. Consciously asserting and reinforcing your newly decided expansive conclusion.
If you are serious about changing, I encourage you to schedule
a FREE CONSULTATION with the treatment method I recommend:
Click Here: http://www.TheLiberatorMethod.com
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
NOTES:
FOOD ADDICTION SYMPTOMS...I OVER EAT...I'M COMPELLED TO OVER EAT...
FOCUSING ON SYMPTOMS IS NOT IMPORTANT... TO GO DEEPER YOU MUST ASK...WHERE DOES MY FOOD ADDICTION COME FROM?
Sometimes you have to break a lot of egg before you discover something truly awesome.
OVERCOMING THE COMPULSIVE NATURE OF FOOD ADDICTION...
FOOD ADDICTION and Identification...Who are you?
OVERCOMING FOOD ADDICTION... Self Help Content #5 of 8
If you’re ADDICTED to FOOD you maybe being affected by feelings of misunderstandings or frustration relevant to your identity.
For example, do you know who you REALLY are, personal for yourself associates members, your buddies and your culture?
Would you be the same personal you are nowadays had you been raised in different circumstances?
Unresolved challenges in this place usually appear in two forms:
1-Displaced Identity—experiencing your sensation of self extremely reliant upon circumstances you’ve designed in your lifestyle. This issue can appear as:
*Defining your Self by your personal connections (friends, kids, partner, family)
*Defining your Self by the companies you are part of (religion, execute, public clubs)
If you have instinctively recognized your self with these ‘things,’ your idea of who you are will be reliant upon them. Having any one of them taken from you will experience like a personal risk to your being.
2-Identity confusion—discovering yourself disappointed with what you have, or your self you display to the outside globe being pushed in a roundabout way. This experience may appear as:
*Envy for others’ valuables (material valuables, levels, headings, spouses)
*Acting out-of-alignment with your mentioned perception techniques, your phrase, or your values
Unresolved, either experience of ‘Not Understanding Who You Are’ gradually results in problems and difficulty. A sure indication that you are instinctively ‘Not Being In keeping with your Self’ is the experience of being tricked by others OR experiencing yourself cheating on them (wife, spouse, family associates, execute affiliates, etc.)
I recommend that these psychological ‘issues’ and external encounters are not really your issue. They are encounters arising from ERRONEOUS CONCLUSIONS YOU’VE MADE ABOUT YOUR SELF during the essential stage of development that happens between AGES 12 to 20 YEARS OLD. In a well-intended make an effort to management your upcoming experience, you accidentally further complicated your erroneous summary by PROGRAMMING CERTAIN DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR FUTURE BEHAVIOR.
Your STRUGGLES ARE THE PHYSICAL WORLD RESULTS OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS BEHAVIORAL PROGRAMS. These programs were ‘made-up’ by your unskilled thoughts. The results, and organic restrictions, of your programs are now being shown to you for reevaluation—this time from the viewpoint of your extended experience.
Although your subconscious programs are identified by your not aware thoughts as REALITY, your external experience is merely a mirror—a LITERAL, ACCURATE REFLECTION OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIS-INTERPRETATION OF REALITY.
This may be challenging to believe. However, the proof will become apparent, as you comprehend to see the reflection and figure out the signs within the picture. For example, an experience of ‘betrayal’ in your lifestyle is an experiential reflection showing the subconscious function of a program of ‘Self-betrayal’ that has performed itself out and designed results in a actual physical type. You are being given to be able to consciously see that this system is no more operating for you so that you may select in a different way.
STAGE FIVE PROGRAMMING –12 to 20 YEARS OLD*:
I AM CONSCIOUSLY BECOMING AWARE OF ALL ASPECTS, ALL POSSIBILITIES, THAT EXIST WITHIN ME. I AM DISCOVERING THE TRUTH ABOUT MY SELF THROUGH MY EXPERIENCE.
AS I BECOME AWARE THAT I HAVE HONORED SOME ASPECTS OF MY POTENTIAL, AND CONDEMNED OTHERS, I COME TO UNDERSTAND THAT ALL POSSIBILITIES THAT EXIST WITHIN ME ARE VALUABLE PARTS OF THE WHOLE THAT I AM. THE POSSIBILITIES I HAVE CONDEMNED WILL EVENTUALLY DEMAND THAT I ACKNOWLEDGE THE INHERENT VALUE OF THEIR EXISTENCE. BY SO DOING I ACKNOWLEDGE THE INHERENT VALUE, AND FULL POTENTIAL, OF ALL THAT I AM.
A essential move happens during this FIFTH STAGE of development.
In your first four levels, your development was considerably affected by conclusions YOU DECIDED to be actual IN RESPONSE TO WHAT WAS SUGGESTED, AND/OR DONE, and TO YOU. From Stage Five on, your development relies upon mainly upon the conclusions you create ABOUT YOUR SELF IN RELATION TO YOUR OWN BEHAVIORS. Your career during Stage Five is to reveal and DEFINE WHO YOU ARE, personal from who you’ve been trained you ‘should be’ by your family associates members, your buddies and your lifestyle.
Success in this procedure of individuation results in an passionate, clearly described sensation of Self. Between 12 and 20, your atmosphere increases and becomes more difficult. You experience yourself in complicated public communications and have to deal with highly effective ethical issues.
By EXPERIMENTING WITH DIFFERENT STRATEGIES in an make an effort to accomplish your DESIRES, you discover out, and set up, your personal VALUES. Victory in this stage is confirmed as you observe yourself BEING TRUE TO BOTH YOUR DESIRES AND YOUR VALUES, which results in the actual physical experience of FIDELITY and DEVOTION within your relationships—especially your loving connections. Even little self-betrayals will generate some way of degree of resistance in actual physical reality.
One immaturity organic to this stage of development is to think unrealistically with regards to ‘all-or-none ideals’—standards of excellence thought to be accomplished totally without any issue. Depending on Values is a realistic and easy to comprehend replacement for the deficiency of skill that prevails during this stage. However, as you obtain experience you will comprehend that idealism without the genuine probability of issue is not a realistic or accurate perspective of our existing globe reality. Once you identify and agree to the chance of issue, you can get ready your Self to take a place up for your Wishes and your Values—even in the experience of passionate degree of resistance, if necessary.
During Stage Five you learn:
1. Which of your desires you you can identify with, securely show and act upon and
2. Which Personality Characteristics and Concepts you truly Value and are willing to own, promote and show.
If your desires and/or values differ from, or task those organised by your buddies, family associates or your lifestyle you may be experienced with issue. When you are LOGICALLY AND RATIONALLY HONORED, SUPPORTED AND VALUED during this issue, by the Knowledge of Experience, you learn:
3. How to ADVOCATE FOR YOUR SELF.
Success in this Fifth Stage results in ACCEPTING YOUR DESIRES AS A RELIABLE EXPRESSION OF THE POTENTIAL THAT EXISTS WITHIN YOU. This Self Believe in results in a successful and motivated sensation of:
“I Am Being In keeping with my Growing Self as I Legitimately Express and act on my Wishes in alignment with my Concepts.”
Being HUMILIATED or SHAMED for your desires or your choices during this stage can be dangerous to the organic procedure of individuation, especially when knowledgeable in the existence of essential colleagues. Absence of motivation and support, indicated by excessive stress to comply with recommended positions and objectives, may also result in ultimate identity misunderstandings, inner disturbance and upheaval—symptoms that an act of Self-Betrayal has happened. These signs naturally develop out of the misperception that:
“I cannot trust my desires. I cannot trust my Self.”
As a part observe, the limitations of this CORE PROGRAMMING ISSUE are often associated, and increased, by a continual interval of revoked activity. This may appear through job get rid of out, degree of potential to deal with public activity, company reduction, jail time, essential medical concerns, etc. This ‘suspension’ is a SUBCONSCIOUS CREATIVE ATTEMPT TO PROTECT YOUR VULNERABLE SELF BYAVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY until you fix the actual subconscious query “Who Am I?” The query eliminates itself as you agree to, and regard, your subconscious desires and delivers them into contract with your conscious desires and values.
HERE IS ESSENTIAL TRUTH OF STAGE #5
OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS Development
THE INTELLIGENCE OF YOUR UNCONSCIOUS MIND IS EVER-PRESENT. THIS INTELLIGENCE RELATES TO YOU WITH UNCONDITIONALLY BENEVOLENT, AFFECTIONATE REGARD and SUBLIMINALLY COMMUNICATES AND REFLECTS YOUR UNSEEN DESIRES to you through PRECISE LITERAL SYMBOLS—you’re WORDS and your PHYSICAL CONDITIONS. You can comprehend to DECIPHER these SYMBOLS.
Once you comprehend to identify and convert the information, you can EVALUATE YOUR FEEDBACK with your now-mature LOGICAL REASONING. By MAKING THE APPROPRIATE ADJUSTMENTS that create REASONABLE SENSE to you, in ALIGNMENT with your VALUES, you HONOR and LIBERATE the aspects of YOUR EMERGING SELF you had formerly instinctively condemned.
I study this information the other day of Plato’s “Allegory of the Cave”...“your thoughts — suffused and diverted with a non-stop flow of non-sensical reps of phrase signs – imprison and separate you in a globe of circulating psychological “bookmarks” of reality, marked to, but only dimly indicative of What’s Real, and keeping you sightless to the extraordinary reality itself in which other people reside in quality of purpose and lifestyle significance...”
THE SOLUTION as mentioned in THE OTHER Stages is:
CONSCIOUSLY REPROGRAM A NEW, EXPANSIVE, LOGICAL CONCLUSION
Changing your flawed programming requires:
1. Starting your thoughts to the chance that you’ve accepted restricting functions that are not really actual,
2. Finding the restricting program,
3. Complex the truth of the program’s formerly accepted restrictions and
4. Knowingly saying and strengthening your recently determined expansive summary.
If you are serious about changing, I encourage you to schedule
a FREE CONSULTATION with the treatment method I recommend:
Click Here: http://www.TheLiberatorMethod.com
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
NOTES:
FOCUSING ON SYMPTOMS IS NOT IMPORTANT... TO GO DEEPER YOU MUST ASK...WHERE DOES MY FOOD ADDICTION COME FROM?
Sometimes you have to break a lot of egg before you discover something truly awesome.
OVERCOMING THE COMPULSIVE NATURE OF FOOD ADDICTION...
FOOD ADDICTION and Identification...Who are you?
OVERCOMING FOOD ADDICTION... Self Help Content #5 of 8
If you’re ADDICTED to FOOD you maybe being affected by feelings of misunderstandings or frustration relevant to your identity.
For example, do you know who you REALLY are, personal for yourself associates members, your buddies and your culture?
Would you be the same personal you are nowadays had you been raised in different circumstances?
Unresolved challenges in this place usually appear in two forms:
1-Displaced Identity—experiencing your sensation of self extremely reliant upon circumstances you’ve designed in your lifestyle. This issue can appear as:
*Defining your Self by your personal connections (friends, kids, partner, family)
*Defining your Self by the companies you are part of (religion, execute, public clubs)
If you have instinctively recognized your self with these ‘things,’ your idea of who you are will be reliant upon them. Having any one of them taken from you will experience like a personal risk to your being.
2-Identity confusion—discovering yourself disappointed with what you have, or your self you display to the outside globe being pushed in a roundabout way. This experience may appear as:
*Envy for others’ valuables (material valuables, levels, headings, spouses)
*Acting out-of-alignment with your mentioned perception techniques, your phrase, or your values
Unresolved, either experience of ‘Not Understanding Who You Are’ gradually results in problems and difficulty. A sure indication that you are instinctively ‘Not Being In keeping with your Self’ is the experience of being tricked by others OR experiencing yourself cheating on them (wife, spouse, family associates, execute affiliates, etc.)
I recommend that these psychological ‘issues’ and external encounters are not really your issue. They are encounters arising from ERRONEOUS CONCLUSIONS YOU’VE MADE ABOUT YOUR SELF during the essential stage of development that happens between AGES 12 to 20 YEARS OLD. In a well-intended make an effort to management your upcoming experience, you accidentally further complicated your erroneous summary by PROGRAMMING CERTAIN DECISIONS ABOUT YOUR FUTURE BEHAVIOR.
Your STRUGGLES ARE THE PHYSICAL WORLD RESULTS OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS BEHAVIORAL PROGRAMS. These programs were ‘made-up’ by your unskilled thoughts. The results, and organic restrictions, of your programs are now being shown to you for reevaluation—this time from the viewpoint of your extended experience.
Although your subconscious programs are identified by your not aware thoughts as REALITY, your external experience is merely a mirror—a LITERAL, ACCURATE REFLECTION OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIS-INTERPRETATION OF REALITY.
This may be challenging to believe. However, the proof will become apparent, as you comprehend to see the reflection and figure out the signs within the picture. For example, an experience of ‘betrayal’ in your lifestyle is an experiential reflection showing the subconscious function of a program of ‘Self-betrayal’ that has performed itself out and designed results in a actual physical type. You are being given to be able to consciously see that this system is no more operating for you so that you may select in a different way.
STAGE FIVE PROGRAMMING –12 to 20 YEARS OLD*:
I AM CONSCIOUSLY BECOMING AWARE OF ALL ASPECTS, ALL POSSIBILITIES, THAT EXIST WITHIN ME. I AM DISCOVERING THE TRUTH ABOUT MY SELF THROUGH MY EXPERIENCE.
AS I BECOME AWARE THAT I HAVE HONORED SOME ASPECTS OF MY POTENTIAL, AND CONDEMNED OTHERS, I COME TO UNDERSTAND THAT ALL POSSIBILITIES THAT EXIST WITHIN ME ARE VALUABLE PARTS OF THE WHOLE THAT I AM. THE POSSIBILITIES I HAVE CONDEMNED WILL EVENTUALLY DEMAND THAT I ACKNOWLEDGE THE INHERENT VALUE OF THEIR EXISTENCE. BY SO DOING I ACKNOWLEDGE THE INHERENT VALUE, AND FULL POTENTIAL, OF ALL THAT I AM.
A essential move happens during this FIFTH STAGE of development.
In your first four levels, your development was considerably affected by conclusions YOU DECIDED to be actual IN RESPONSE TO WHAT WAS SUGGESTED, AND/OR DONE, and TO YOU. From Stage Five on, your development relies upon mainly upon the conclusions you create ABOUT YOUR SELF IN RELATION TO YOUR OWN BEHAVIORS. Your career during Stage Five is to reveal and DEFINE WHO YOU ARE, personal from who you’ve been trained you ‘should be’ by your family associates members, your buddies and your lifestyle.
Success in this procedure of individuation results in an passionate, clearly described sensation of Self. Between 12 and 20, your atmosphere increases and becomes more difficult. You experience yourself in complicated public communications and have to deal with highly effective ethical issues.
By EXPERIMENTING WITH DIFFERENT STRATEGIES in an make an effort to accomplish your DESIRES, you discover out, and set up, your personal VALUES. Victory in this stage is confirmed as you observe yourself BEING TRUE TO BOTH YOUR DESIRES AND YOUR VALUES, which results in the actual physical experience of FIDELITY and DEVOTION within your relationships—especially your loving connections. Even little self-betrayals will generate some way of degree of resistance in actual physical reality.
One immaturity organic to this stage of development is to think unrealistically with regards to ‘all-or-none ideals’—standards of excellence thought to be accomplished totally without any issue. Depending on Values is a realistic and easy to comprehend replacement for the deficiency of skill that prevails during this stage. However, as you obtain experience you will comprehend that idealism without the genuine probability of issue is not a realistic or accurate perspective of our existing globe reality. Once you identify and agree to the chance of issue, you can get ready your Self to take a place up for your Wishes and your Values—even in the experience of passionate degree of resistance, if necessary.
During Stage Five you learn:
1. Which of your desires you you can identify with, securely show and act upon and
2. Which Personality Characteristics and Concepts you truly Value and are willing to own, promote and show.
If your desires and/or values differ from, or task those organised by your buddies, family associates or your lifestyle you may be experienced with issue. When you are LOGICALLY AND RATIONALLY HONORED, SUPPORTED AND VALUED during this issue, by the Knowledge of Experience, you learn:
3. How to ADVOCATE FOR YOUR SELF.
Success in this Fifth Stage results in ACCEPTING YOUR DESIRES AS A RELIABLE EXPRESSION OF THE POTENTIAL THAT EXISTS WITHIN YOU. This Self Believe in results in a successful and motivated sensation of:
“I Am Being In keeping with my Growing Self as I Legitimately Express and act on my Wishes in alignment with my Concepts.”
Being HUMILIATED or SHAMED for your desires or your choices during this stage can be dangerous to the organic procedure of individuation, especially when knowledgeable in the existence of essential colleagues. Absence of motivation and support, indicated by excessive stress to comply with recommended positions and objectives, may also result in ultimate identity misunderstandings, inner disturbance and upheaval—symptoms that an act of Self-Betrayal has happened. These signs naturally develop out of the misperception that:
“I cannot trust my desires. I cannot trust my Self.”
As a part observe, the limitations of this CORE PROGRAMMING ISSUE are often associated, and increased, by a continual interval of revoked activity. This may appear through job get rid of out, degree of potential to deal with public activity, company reduction, jail time, essential medical concerns, etc. This ‘suspension’ is a SUBCONSCIOUS CREATIVE ATTEMPT TO PROTECT YOUR VULNERABLE SELF BYAVOIDING RESPONSIBILITY until you fix the actual subconscious query “Who Am I?” The query eliminates itself as you agree to, and regard, your subconscious desires and delivers them into contract with your conscious desires and values.
HERE IS ESSENTIAL TRUTH OF STAGE #5
OF YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS Development
THE INTELLIGENCE OF YOUR UNCONSCIOUS MIND IS EVER-PRESENT. THIS INTELLIGENCE RELATES TO YOU WITH UNCONDITIONALLY BENEVOLENT, AFFECTIONATE REGARD and SUBLIMINALLY COMMUNICATES AND REFLECTS YOUR UNSEEN DESIRES to you through PRECISE LITERAL SYMBOLS—you’re WORDS and your PHYSICAL CONDITIONS. You can comprehend to DECIPHER these SYMBOLS.
Once you comprehend to identify and convert the information, you can EVALUATE YOUR FEEDBACK with your now-mature LOGICAL REASONING. By MAKING THE APPROPRIATE ADJUSTMENTS that create REASONABLE SENSE to you, in ALIGNMENT with your VALUES, you HONOR and LIBERATE the aspects of YOUR EMERGING SELF you had formerly instinctively condemned.
I study this information the other day of Plato’s “Allegory of the Cave”...“your thoughts — suffused and diverted with a non-stop flow of non-sensical reps of phrase signs – imprison and separate you in a globe of circulating psychological “bookmarks” of reality, marked to, but only dimly indicative of What’s Real, and keeping you sightless to the extraordinary reality itself in which other people reside in quality of purpose and lifestyle significance...”
THE SOLUTION as mentioned in THE OTHER Stages is:
CONSCIOUSLY REPROGRAM A NEW, EXPANSIVE, LOGICAL CONCLUSION
Changing your flawed programming requires:
1. Starting your thoughts to the chance that you’ve accepted restricting functions that are not really actual,
2. Finding the restricting program,
3. Complex the truth of the program’s formerly accepted restrictions and
4. Knowingly saying and strengthening your recently determined expansive summary.
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